The Hardest Part of Therapy

[VIDEO] Many people think the hardest part of therapy is the emotions or vulnerability. In reality, the hardest part of therapy is simply getting started—and that first step is where real growth begins.

The Hardest Part of Therapy: Why Starting Feels So Difficult – a 1½-minute video with Mary Beth Luedtke

Many people expect the hardest part of therapy to be the deep conversations, the emotions, or the vulnerability. But often, the hardest part of therapy is simply getting started. It means slowing down long enough to face what you have been avoiding.
 
In this video, Mary Beth Luedtke explores why beginning feels so difficult and why that first step is also the turning point toward real growth.

What People Think Is the Hardest Part of Therapy

When people imagine the hardest part of therapy, they often picture intense emotions, painful conversations, or exposing their deepest vulnerabilities. Those images can be intimidating, but they aren’t usually the hardest part.

Difficult Conversations

Many people worry that therapy will mean constant heavy talks. While emotions do surface, a skilled therapist guides you through a process of learning new emotional skills. These skills help you stay grounded and make it possible to navigate even the hardest conversations without being overwhelmed.

Facing Emotions

Another common fear is that therapy will force you to feel things you can’t handle. In truth, emotions can be painful, but they are also understandable and purposeful when explored with your therapist. 

Being Vulnerable

Vulnerability may feel risky, but it is also the gateway to connection and growth. At BEing There, we meet every client with our own safety and vulnerability, because these are the foundations of a healthy relationship. You are not doing this alone. We are right there with you, so you can feel supported and grounded while exploring new levels of vulnerability.

The reality is that the hardest part of therapy is often just getting started. Making the decision to show up, to pause your busy life, and to face what you have been pushing aside is where the real courage lies. Once you begin, therapy stops feeling like a burden and starts becoming a path to freedom.

Learn More About Mary Beth

Mary Beth’s approach to therapy is grounded in lived experience, not just theory. Her insights—shaped by real-world challenges like building a career, marriage, and parenting—help clients create meaningful, lasting change.

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